The Age of Exploration?

You're in your 20's, you're young and fresh and ready to explore the world and his body? It is the age of sexual exploration whether you like it or not. Your girlfriends update you on their sizzling activity, or lack thereof, and your guy friends brag about their rendevous the night before with, ofcourse, the hottest girl on this side of town. If it isn't your friends with the experience to talk about, you'll find plenty of references to sexual relationships on the usual media outlets you tune into. Some girls say they feel the pressure to go further than they themselves feel comfortable going to at this moment in their lives, but some girls are excited about the chance to get close and intimate with whomever they may be attracted to. If you consider yourself a member of the latter group, please dispense with the pressure and don't let it bother you. Do whatever you are comfortable doing and if the person you want to be with, can't respect that, then it is time for you to move on.

Now to be quite frank, this is written for the girls in the latter group; the girls that can't wait to get in bed and get to business. If you are one of these girls, I bet you're curious and excited not because you know what you want, but because you are ready to find out what you want. You want to gain some expertise in one of the most pleasureable activities that two people can share with each other. Not only is this not unusual behavior but it isn't even un-womanly.

We've got a lot of catching up to do, ladies. I know that you would like to think that the man of your dreams will have the purest of minds and that he will enjoy every second he has with you in bed, even if it's average. It's a nice thought but in today's day and age, such guys, who still meet your other "deal makers", have a lot of things on their mind. When pornography is a click away and the hamburger advertisements now require half naked, trim girls, well, honey, our boys feel the impact. They know what they want and there isn't any widespread negative stigma attached to the male viewing these images or videos either. The mind's of today's men are being bombarded with images of the most beautiful of bodies, the most pleasurable of positions, and the most intriguing movements a human body is capable of.

And ofcourse, the images are most likely of other women. So it really isn't terrible if you, even as a courtly and well mannered lady, are interested in trying the things that girl with the fake boobs is doing in that video. It isn't disgusting if you, in your prime and youthful years, want to explore your current potential and see where you can take it from here. As long as you're safe and knowledgable about the consequences that could arise, even if the likelihood of an undesireable consequence is just 1%, then be on your way, my caterpillar. May you become the most sensual and passionate butterfly your man has ever seen in his bed (or yours.)